Comfortable New Yr everybody! I’ve made targets publicly for over ten years as a result of it helps preserve me accountable. Making targets additionally makes the yr extra thrilling and difficult. Therefore, listed here are my targets for 2023.
As soon as once more, I’ve divided the targets into 5 classes: Well being, Wealth, Household, Monetary Samurai, and X-Factor. My aim is to attain 70% of my targets.
Well being Objectives For 2023: Upkeep Mode
1) Keep the identical weight
As an alternative of a weight reduction aim, my aim is to play tennis or pickleball 4 occasions every week on common all yr. Higher health and psychological well being will naturally include common exercise.
I’ll keep the identical weight of between 167-168 kilos all of 2023. The ideal weight chart says I needs to be between 151 – 163 kilos at 5’10”. However screw that! I’m not an adolescent any longer.
2) Keep harm free
At 45, my thoughts is usually stronger than my physique. I feel I can play 5 days every week however I actually can’t with out ache or a heightened threat of harm. Every little thing from my heels to my hips to my shoulders aches after taking part in sports activities.
I’ll stretch for 5 minutes earlier than and after each match. A foam curler will likely be my new greatest good friend. Each off day I’ll soak within the hot tub. Lastly, I’ll use elastic bands to strengthen my shoulders 4 occasions every week.
Getting injured would additionally stop me from taking part in with my kids and I can’t let that occur at their present ages of three and 5. We play “fly” the place I decide them up they usually faux to be birds or planes. Then we play “jumpy soar” the place I assist them soar actually excessive on the couch. Wholesome shoulders and knees are a should for these actions.
Wealth Objectives For 2023: Flat Is The New Up
1) Observe the first rule of financial independence: by no means lose cash
I feel we’ll be fortunate (~40% probability) if the S&P 500 closes the yr within the 4,000 – 4,250 vary. I anticipate a 60% probability the S&P 500 will go down one other 10% sooner or later in 2023, i.e. <3,500 for S&P 500. Listed below are the 2023 Wall Street forecasts.
With ~30% of my web price in public equities, a ten% decline will drag down my web price by 3%. The Fed appears determined to cause another recession, regardless of all indicators clearly pointing to declining inflation.
I anticipate the nationwide median dwelling value to say no by about 8% in 2023. This can lead to a 4% drag on my web price given actual property counts for about 50% of my web price. Nevertheless, I’ve already priced my actual property portfolio about 10% under market costs. Listed below are the 2023 housing price forecasts.
Based mostly on the above expectations, my reasonable draw back situation is a 7% decline in web price.
A practical upside situation is that shares shut up 5% – 10% to 4,000 – 4,235, leading to a web price enhance of 1.5% – 3%. In the meantime, I feel the reasonable best-case situation is for housing costs to remain flat. Because of this, my best-case reasonable upside situation is a 3% enhance in web price.
Based mostly on the blended assumptions, I anticipate my web price to be down about 3% in 2023. Because of this, I must generate sufficient after-tax earnings to cowl the shortfall.
I ought to have a 95%+ probability of producing sufficient on-line earnings to make up for a 3% web price decline with out further effort. If not, I’ll simply work more durable to not violate the primary rule of monetary independence. There are such a lot of methods to make money online. Consulting can also be another choice.
2) Enhance passive earnings by 5% to $400,000
The rise in rates of interest helped enhance our passive earnings by 10% to ~$380,000 in 2022. As rates of interest come down and my Treasury bonds mature in 2023, I’ll want to seek out new methods to generate extra passive earnings.
My hope is that by mid-2023, there will likely be extra private real estate deals at decrease valuations and better yields. In that case, I’ll roll a whole bunch of 1000’s of {dollars} into personal actual property funds and offers from my expiring short-term Treasury bonds and purchase.
Given there’s extra threat concerned with actual property, I anticipate the next charge of return than the 4.2% – 4.7% risk-free from Treasuries. 8-10% returns appear affordable however are clearly not assured.
I anticipate CPI to go under 5% by year-end, if not by July. Therefore, my actual passive earnings aim is to beat the common inflation charge for 2023.
As soon as once more, cash flow is more important than net worth. It’s money stream that funds your life-style. When you’ve got a lifetime pension that may pay for all of your dwelling bills, rejoice! Your pension is worth more than you understand.
3) Increase spending by 20%
We spent about $240,000 a yr after taxes in 2022, which is equal to about $320,000 a yr in passive earnings. Subsequently, we plan to spice up spending by $48,000 to $288,000. $288,000 equals $384,000 in gross passive earnings. In different phrases, we plan to spend all of our annual passive earnings in 2023.
Though we’re proud of our present spending, I’ve began my decumulation phase given I’ll be 46 in mid-2023. Some concepts for spending an extra $48,000 embody:
- $5,000 donation to the Pomeroy Rehabilitation & Recreation Middle for disabled kids and adults
- $12,000 extra on yummier meals
- $10,000 on nicer flights for my mother and father and in-laws to come back go to
- $12,000 on household holidays
- $5,000 on childcare
- $4,000 items
Shedding plenty of cash within the inventory market in 2022 has made spending extra money in 2023 simpler. Given I anticipate one other tough yr, I’d a lot quite spend my cash than lose it. Then once more, I don’t know the way to reconcile spending extra with additionally rising our passive earnings this yr.
If I handle to maintain our web price flat in 2023, then we should always actually enhance our spending by 50% – 100% to cut back our web price. However this dramatic of a rise is hard to implement.
If we improve to a more expensive forever home decumulation will likely be simpler. However not now.
Beat again real estate FOMO.
If my expectations are right, there will likely be extra housing offers by mid-2023. By then, costs might be down 10% and mortgage charges might be again down to five% for the common 30-year mounted. The temptation to improve to a nicer dwelling will likely be nice!
However similar to how consuming a fifth slice of key lime pie is unhealthy in your physique, shopping for a fifth property in San Francisco is unhealthy for my sanity. Being a landlord decreases the standard of my life. Something always comes up. Plus, my spouse doesn’t need to transfer and I want to understand what we’ve got.
Apart from, I’d quite diversify toward the heartland quite than have extra focus threat in San Francisco. Heartland actual property is a multi-decade development I can’t miss.
Household Objectives For 2023
1) Give as a lot consideration to my daughter as I did to my son
My depth in the direction of childcare has waned. A part of the reason being that I’ve already learn all of the books, watched all of the movies, and know what to anticipate. Another excuse is because of an enhance in laziness.
When my son frequently gave me the chilly shoulder between ages 1.5 – 3, I attempted more durable to create a bond. When my daughter displayed related habits at that age, I discovered myself giving up extra simply. From expertise, I imagine ultimately she’ll come to understand her dad at all times being there for her.
Now that our daughter is three, it’s time to focus and make most once more! Her recollections will type and I’ve observed, similar to our son, she now needs to spend extra time with me. Because of this, I’m going to just do that.
To be particular, my aim is to spend two hours within the morning along with her, two hours within the afternoon, and one hour within the night. She will likely be attending preschool two days every week.
The typical time a college-educated mom spends with their youngster in America is two hours a day. Therefore, my aim is to spend not less than double the period of time on common till she now not needs to spend time with me.

2) See my mother and father twice
It sounds form of unhappy to have a aim of seeing my mother and father solely twice a yr. However they reside in Honolulu and I reside in San Francisco. They made an enormous effort to go to us in 2022. I hope to persuade them to go to for every week once more in 2023.
I will even fly out to go to them for every week not less than as soon as this yr, both on my own or with household. We nonetheless haven’t taken the children on an airplane but. However perhaps we’ll this summer time!
3) Educate my boy the way to swim.
I seemed into personal classes they usually price $80 for 20 minutes! WTF. The swim faculty mentioned it should take a toddler roughly 24-48, 20-minute classes to learn to swim. Therefore, we’re speaking $1,920 to $3,840. Really, including up the whole price doesn’t sound as unhealthy because the 20-minute charge.
Given we don’t have a pool and I can’t appear to ever get a spot on the less expensive group classes, I could should go this costly route. Regardless, I’ll positively give my boy classes after we go as much as Lake Tahoe.
4) Be higher aligned on parenting types.
Though I feel I’m good, I’m positive my spouse would say I’ve a extra “powerful love” kind of parenting type. She, then again, has a extra mild parenting type. I’d like for us to slim the hole.
Instance: Son slips and falls after being instructed 5 occasions to not run on a moist sidewalk. He’s crying.
Me: “Embrace the ache. In case you didn’t need to really feel ache, you wouldn’t have run.”
She: “Are you OK? I’m sorry you might be harm. We instructed you to not run. Please pay attention subsequent time.”
Oh, snap! Possibly I’m being too militant!
One among my best fears is elevating smooth youngsters who can not launch as adults. In my neighborhood, there are not less than 5 sons between the ages of 26 – 34 nonetheless dwelling at dwelling with their mother and father. Then there are the individuals on-line who get upset on the littlest issues. What occurred?
If we coddle our youngsters an excessive amount of, they could develop into weak. If a perpetual security web removes their fear of failure, they may find yourself at all times being depending on us.
Battle is a privilege! The satisfaction of overcoming a tough problem is fantastic.
Monetary Samurai Objectives For 2023
1) Publish 3 times every week on common, not 4 occasions
I mentioned I’ve printed 3 times every week on common since 2009. However in actuality, I’ve averaged nearer to 4 occasions every week attributable to my free weekly newsletter.
My publication often comes out on Sunday morning, which suggests I typically spend Friday evening, Saturday morning, or Sunday morning writing it. This additionally means I can by no means absolutely take the weekend off. This can change in 2023.
I’ll both publish two posts every week and one publication or publish a bi-weekly publication going ahead.
For my 14th yr working Monetary Samurai, I must take issues all the way down to rejuvenate the thoughts. My eyes are additionally getting extra simply fatigued, which suggests much less display time.
2) Write 25% shorter posts
Because of social media, fewer individuals read amazing books and long-form content material on-line. Therefore, as a author, I ought to evolve with the occasions if I need to entice a youthful viewers.
Writing shorter posts additionally reduces my workload, in addition to my father’s and spouse’s workloads as editors. I’ll get to the purpose faster.
3) Document not less than 30 extra podcast episodes
In December 2022, I got here up with the apply of recording podcast episodes in my automobile after dropping off my son at college. The acoustics are adequate and my ideas are recent. I additionally wished to be productive earlier than taking part in sports activities.
Releasing podcasts is a enjoyable option to join with readers and share nuanced ideas about my newest posts. I typically incorporate reader suggestions, which comes within the feedback part after posts are printed.
The years of recording podcasts additionally helped me develop into a greater interviewee after I was on my three-month e-book tour for Buy This, Not That. Lastly, I need to document a big archive of episodes for my youngsters in case I die prematurely.
X-Issue Objectives For 2023
An X-factor is one thing out of the abnormal that may carry you pleasure, that means, and/or earnings.
1) Change into a 4.5-level pickleball participant
I’m hooked on pickleball. It’s a sport I see myself taking part in by way of my 70s, if I reside that lengthy. After a number of successful years at 4.0 tennis, I received bumped as much as 4.5. Then on the age of 39, I received bumped up to 5.0 and stayed there for 5 years till 2022. The progress was exhilarating! I’d love to do the identical with pickleball.
I’ve already performed towards and with 4.5 gamers and did effective. Subsequently, all I must do is get my official DUPR ranking and play in some tournaments. A 4.5-level pickleball player is a high 6% participant.
By 2027, I need to get to five.0 and win not less than $1,000 a yr taking part in skilled tournaments. 2027 is after I flip 50 and get to compete on the senior tour! Oh, how bittersweet to be referred to as a senior so quickly.
2) Write one other e-book
Though writing a historically printed e-book is extraordinarily arduous, I’d love to do it once more. My first e-book, an book entitled, How To Engineer Your Layoff, has helped 1000’s of individuals negotiate a severance. Having the ability to stroll away from a job you now not like with cash in your pocket appears like successful the lottery.
My second e-book, a historically printed e-book entitled, Buy This, Not That, went on to develop into a Wall Avenue Journal bestseller. I feel it has a superb probability to develop into a traditional private finance e-book that may stand the take a look at of time.
Publishing a bodily e-book with a good writer has given me an incredible quantity of unanticipated satisfaction. My kids are proud to see my work. I spotted having some status is nicer than being a no one. Serving to readers achieve monetary braveness is gratifying. Lastly, it’s at all times fantastic to create one thing from nothing.
Now I simply must hammer out a brand new e-book deal.
3) Make one good new good friend
Making mates appears to get more durable as an grownup. Nevertheless, I’d wish to make not less than one good new good friend from my son’s faculty or by way of sports activities.
Pre-pandemic, I used to go to a variety of fintech and startup meetups. Pre-kids, I used to go to conferences domestically and internationally. I’m not lonely, however I would really like a greater social life to make up for 2020-2021.
A Easy Life For 2023
With probably one other tough yr for our investments, I’ll focus extra of my time on household, mates, and private endeavors.
In case you can afford to, an financial downturn is the time to have extra enjoyable. The return on effort (ROE) to make more cash is decrease. Are you able to think about working 60 hours every week solely to see your organization’s share value go down 60%? What a waste of time!
I’ve embraced the Fed’s need to harm the livelihood of hundreds of thousands so we will get monetary savings on the grocery retailer. Personally, I’d quite eat all of the meals I purchase to save cash, as a substitute of waste 40% like the common American. However that might be too logical. Combating the Fed is futile.
If inexperienced shoots start to sprout as soon as extra, I’ll be able to seize a few of the financial upside. However for now, I plan to get pleasure from a extra enjoyable 2023.
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